I have this problem too.. It started out really early.. Into our 4th month of our relationship he started watching porn, when he started that we stopped having sex. Everytime I tried to turn him on he'd say he was tired, I'd check his phone and sure enough he had just jacked off. It was frustrating at first.. Then he decided he wanted a baby... Which made us start having sex more.. We were having sex again.. Even throughout my whole pregnancy.. He proposed to me after we found out we were expecting.. We had a beautiful baby boy.. And I've been ready to have sex a month ago, but he won't budge.. He can't even get hard .. So like many of you I'm depressed, feeling unwanted and unattractive.. I know I'm not fat and I didn't get any stretch marks.. My body looks the same.. So now this is making me second guess marrying him.. I don't want to be in a sexless marriage . I'm still very very young. I'm 21 he's 26.. I've never brought it to his attention because I hate being rejected.. Another reason I stopped trying to have sex.. Him not being able to get hard just tied my stomach in a knot.. Not that I want to compare him but the relationship I was in before him, sex was amazing! And we were together for two years and almost never missed a day of sex.. Even near the end we were still having sex daily..and he was much older.. So you can imagine I went from having sex everyday to if I'm lucky at all.. And masturbation is just not cutting it.. I want his hands all over me wanting me the way I want him ... Were happy but I just feel like a friend to him.. Our days are great so when he does things like kiss my neck nibble my ear or gring up against me, he puts my hopes up every night thinking tonight's the night.... Then nothing..... Why would I want to marry someone that shows me no intimate affection? He does the little things I think to keep me at bay with him. Idk.... I'm gunna give him two more months before I tell him that I'm not sure I want to marry him if this is going to be or life..
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I have this problem too.. It started out really early.. Into our 4th month of our relationship he started watching porn, when he started that we stopped having sex. Everytime I tried to turn him on he'd say he was tired, I'd check his phone and sure enough he had just jacked off. It was frustrating at first.. Then he decided he wanted a baby... Which made us start having sex more.. We were having sex again.. Even throughout my whole pregnancy.. He proposed to me after we found out we were expecting.. We had a beautiful baby boy.. And I've been ready to have sex a month ago, but he won't budge.. He can't even get hard .. So like many of you I'm depressed, feeling unwanted and unattractive.. I know I'm not fat and I didn't get any stretch marks.. My body looks the same.. So now this is making me second guess marrying him.. I don't want to be in a sexless marriage . I'm still very very young. I'm 21 he's 26.. I've never brought it to his attention because I hate being rejected.. Another reason I stopped trying to have sex.. Him not being able to get hard just tied my stomach in a knot.. Not that I want to compare him but the relationship I was in before him, sex was amazing! And we were together for two years and almost never missed a day of sex.. Even near the end we were still having sex daily..and he was much older.. So you can imagine I went from having sex everyday to if I'm lucky at all.. And masturbation is just not cutting it.. I want his hands all over me wanting me the way I want him ... Were happy but I just feel like a friend to him.. Our days are great so when he does things like kiss my neck nibble my ear or gring up against me, he puts my hopes up every night thinking tonight's the night.... Then nothing..... Why would I want to marry someone that shows me no intimate affection? He does the little things I think to keep me at bay with him. Idk.... I'm gunna give him two more months before I tell him that I'm not sure I want to marry him if this is going to be or life..
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