A friend of mine once said "Show me a boyfriend who won't and I'll show you a neighbor who will" I laughed despite being in this same situation. My s.o. and I had more issues than just sex though. I remained the same appearance wise since he met me but he began calling me fat and disgusting every time we'd have an argument. My self esteem was crap.
This is what ALL men need to realize. We as women can get dick within an hour of being away from you technically speaking. The woman chooses who she will or will not fuck. Men on the other hand have a much harder time getting women to have sex with them. My point is that by rejecting your woman and/or neglecting her needs you are giving her permission to cheat. If it doesn't bother you if she cheats then you can disregard the above but I'm betting that more times than not men expect their women to sit and wait until THEY feel like having sex on their terms.
So in my opinion any man who does this is either
-not caring if she cheats
-purposely pushing her away because he is too scared to break up with her.....he'd rather it be on her.
-is in it for the money,the place to live,the cooking,the Internet access for his gaming and online porn addictions, etc
-he loves you but after watching all that porn all he does is compare you to the girls in porn and physically you don't cut it (very few women do but he is too immature/inexperienced to realize that) Either way again too scared to be real and content utilizing you as a master baton tool when his hand gets old or his fleshlight wears out
Basically if there's a valid issue such as medical or health issues your man would openly voice his concern and be proactively seeing a doctor in order to avoid losing his woman period.
Hey I'm not judging on the fact that they prefer porn I'm judging based on the fact that they don't have the balls to be straight up and own their shit. Doing this to your s.o. is a former of mental and emotional abuse. Now if you both started out w sex 2 times a month then the above does not apply but if you suddenly switch up frequency plus rejecting advances you need to be straight up and explain why and whether or not you're willing to change it. Anything less than that then you pretty much deserve to be fucked over and should be grateful if all the other person does is leave you.
And ladies if your guy is pulling this shit on you please don't EVER take it as you are to blame because as you can clearly see online it doesn't matter what you look like....guts do this to pretty girls,hot girls,gorgeous girls etc....
I am writing this as I sit next to the man I'm going to kick out of my house come tomorrow because I have just figured all this out for myself...... I've been being tortured for over 6 months over this stupidity.....not anymore.
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A friend of mine once said "Show me a boyfriend who won't and I'll show you a neighbor who will" I laughed despite being in this same situation. My s.o. and I had more issues than just sex though. I remained the same appearance wise since he met me but he began calling me fat and disgusting every time we'd have an argument. My self esteem was crap.
This is what ALL men need to realize. We as women can get dick within an hour of being away from you technically speaking. The woman chooses who she will or will not fuck. Men on the other hand have a much harder time getting women to have sex with them. My point is that by rejecting your woman and/or neglecting her needs you are giving her permission to cheat. If it doesn't bother you if she cheats then you can disregard the above but I'm betting that more times than not men expect their women to sit and wait until THEY feel like having sex on their terms.
So in my opinion any man who does this is either
-not caring if she cheats
-purposely pushing her away because he is too scared to break up with her.....he'd rather it be on her.
-is in it for the money,the place to live,the cooking,the Internet access for his gaming and online porn addictions, etc
-he loves you but after watching all that porn all he does is compare you to the girls in porn and physically you don't cut it (very few women do but he is too immature/inexperienced to realize that) Either way again too scared to be real and content utilizing you as a master baton tool when his hand gets old or his fleshlight wears out
Basically if there's a valid issue such as medical or health issues your man would openly voice his concern and be proactively seeing a doctor in order to avoid losing his woman period.
February 28, 2015 - 7:03pmHey I'm not judging on the fact that they prefer porn I'm judging based on the fact that they don't have the balls to be straight up and own their shit. Doing this to your s.o. is a former of mental and emotional abuse. Now if you both started out w sex 2 times a month then the above does not apply but if you suddenly switch up frequency plus rejecting advances you need to be straight up and explain why and whether or not you're willing to change it. Anything less than that then you pretty much deserve to be fucked over and should be grateful if all the other person does is leave you.
And ladies if your guy is pulling this shit on you please don't EVER take it as you are to blame because as you can clearly see online it doesn't matter what you look like....guts do this to pretty girls,hot girls,gorgeous girls etc....
I am writing this as I sit next to the man I'm going to kick out of my house come tomorrow because I have just figured all this out for myself...... I've been being tortured for over 6 months over this stupidity.....not anymore.
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