Thank you for your question. I am also in a relationship with a 10 year difference in age: he is older. This is not that uncommon as we (the younger) usually have a greater sex drive then when we get older. He may be in a settle down mode of thinking rather than the typical "let's have sex mode".
Clearly, it is your decision to stay or leave the relationship based on your needs. In reality, any relationship that we have, we have choices and can deal with certain things while we have those "deal breakers" that cause break-ups. Most of the time, you have to realize that you cannot change the other person, you can only change yourself as we cannot control others.
I know this is not the answer you are searching for although, it is the reality of sexual relationships. I hope this helps by making you think more about you and not so much what he lacks. Keep us posted.
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Hi Anonymous,
Thank you for your question. I am also in a relationship with a 10 year difference in age: he is older. This is not that uncommon as we (the younger) usually have a greater sex drive then when we get older. He may be in a settle down mode of thinking rather than the typical "let's have sex mode".
Clearly, it is your decision to stay or leave the relationship based on your needs. In reality, any relationship that we have, we have choices and can deal with certain things while we have those "deal breakers" that cause break-ups. Most of the time, you have to realize that you cannot change the other person, you can only change yourself as we cannot control others.
I know this is not the answer you are searching for although, it is the reality of sexual relationships. I hope this helps by making you think more about you and not so much what he lacks. Keep us posted.
Missie
January 29, 2012 - 6:28amThis Comment
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