Thank you for your question and everything you explained is pretty common in long lasting relationships as it is called just getting comfortable with someone. When relationships are new, they are so exciting and as time progresses, the excitement wears down and although you may love that person, you do get comfortable and feel as if you don't have to try so hard to please them all the time.
Have you talked to him about how you feel as if you are left in the cold? If your sex drive is so much higher than his, maybe you two can come to an agreement (meet half way) on what each other is excepting out of the sex life. If you want it 3 times a day and he only wants it once a week, then compromise.
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Hi Amber,
Thank you for your question and everything you explained is pretty common in long lasting relationships as it is called just getting comfortable with someone. When relationships are new, they are so exciting and as time progresses, the excitement wears down and although you may love that person, you do get comfortable and feel as if you don't have to try so hard to please them all the time.
Have you talked to him about how you feel as if you are left in the cold? If your sex drive is so much higher than his, maybe you two can come to an agreement (meet half way) on what each other is excepting out of the sex life. If you want it 3 times a day and he only wants it once a week, then compromise.
Will you let me know how this goes?
Good luck!
August 21, 2010 - 10:33amThis Comment
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