Having just come out of a long term relationship with a man I hoped to marry, I can say that I am now thoroughly turned off to circumcised men. Though I was- and still am- incredibly attracted to him, our sex life suffered at times because there was a little voice in the back of my mind that would ask "will he ejaculate this time?" The lack of sensitivity a man feels once he has been circumcised will only get worse with time. At my best moments, I worried if I would ever be able to have children with him if we married. At my worst moments, I was terrified that I wasn't able to please him and he would eventually leave or cheat.
If you are happy with your husband and his lack of foreskin, then I wish only the best for the two of you. My experience with uncicumcised men, however, has only further enforced my belief that it's mutilation akin to the female genital torture which is now banned by law in all countries as a human rights violation. If a person wants to change their genitals, then that is their right under body autonomy and something they should be allowed to do as adults. But it's mutilation and abuse to do such a thing to a child who has no ability to say no.
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Having just come out of a long term relationship with a man I hoped to marry, I can say that I am now thoroughly turned off to circumcised men. Though I was- and still am- incredibly attracted to him, our sex life suffered at times because there was a little voice in the back of my mind that would ask "will he ejaculate this time?" The lack of sensitivity a man feels once he has been circumcised will only get worse with time. At my best moments, I worried if I would ever be able to have children with him if we married. At my worst moments, I was terrified that I wasn't able to please him and he would eventually leave or cheat.
November 20, 2012 - 5:35amIf you are happy with your husband and his lack of foreskin, then I wish only the best for the two of you. My experience with uncicumcised men, however, has only further enforced my belief that it's mutilation akin to the female genital torture which is now banned by law in all countries as a human rights violation. If a person wants to change their genitals, then that is their right under body autonomy and something they should be allowed to do as adults. But it's mutilation and abuse to do such a thing to a child who has no ability to say no.
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