Miscortes gave you some wonderful things to think about.
But I worry mostly because I hear you saying that this man does not live up to the things you want for yourself. If your dream is to someday get married and he will never marry, than the two of you are not going to work out in the long run.
Money and presents are not the things that should make you decide whether to leave this man. But the fact that he doesn't tell you he loves you unless you are in bed worries me. And the fact that he says on his Facebook page that he has "girlfriends," plural, worries me. And the fact that you want to get married and he doesn't worries me.
I know you love him. But sometimes we have to leave people we love in order to find the person who is REALLY meant for us. As long as you are with this man, it's guaranteed that you won't find someone who will treat you better or look toward the long term.
Ask yourself, do you think you can really be happy with a man who doesn't share your dreams?
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Atoti,
Miscortes gave you some wonderful things to think about.
But I worry mostly because I hear you saying that this man does not live up to the things you want for yourself. If your dream is to someday get married and he will never marry, than the two of you are not going to work out in the long run.
Money and presents are not the things that should make you decide whether to leave this man. But the fact that he doesn't tell you he loves you unless you are in bed worries me. And the fact that he says on his Facebook page that he has "girlfriends," plural, worries me. And the fact that you want to get married and he doesn't worries me.
I know you love him. But sometimes we have to leave people we love in order to find the person who is REALLY meant for us. As long as you are with this man, it's guaranteed that you won't find someone who will treat you better or look toward the long term.
Ask yourself, do you think you can really be happy with a man who doesn't share your dreams?
February 16, 2010 - 9:04amThis Comment
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