Thank you for your question and I am sure we all feel your pain, as a year is a long time. It would appear to me from your post that there is clearly an issue with his self esteem and how HE is feeling is making this a complicated situation. He may be depressed about how he looks and feels that is causing him to withdrawal from you and have less esteem to get up and do something about it, such as exercise.
Of course when people are depressed, the brain functions differently. You have been very patient and understanding and it is certainly a good thing that you have spoken to him about all these issues. I know that you are taking the initiative to cook properly but have you tried to push some motivation? Ask him to go for a walk with you. Anything to maybe get him motivated to exercise without actually saying exercise? I mean without him even knowing, you will be creating endorphins in his body from the exercise that helps with with sexual part....
On the other hand, if he is depressed, you may want to try and get him to go to some sort of counseling also.
I hope this helps give you some ideas. Could you please keep us updated?
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Hi Anonymous,
Thank you for your question and I am sure we all feel your pain, as a year is a long time. It would appear to me from your post that there is clearly an issue with his self esteem and how HE is feeling is making this a complicated situation. He may be depressed about how he looks and feels that is causing him to withdrawal from you and have less esteem to get up and do something about it, such as exercise.
Of course when people are depressed, the brain functions differently. You have been very patient and understanding and it is certainly a good thing that you have spoken to him about all these issues. I know that you are taking the initiative to cook properly but have you tried to push some motivation? Ask him to go for a walk with you. Anything to maybe get him motivated to exercise without actually saying exercise? I mean without him even knowing, you will be creating endorphins in his body from the exercise that helps with with sexual part....
On the other hand, if he is depressed, you may want to try and get him to go to some sort of counseling also.
I hope this helps give you some ideas. Could you please keep us updated?
February 27, 2010 - 10:10amThis Comment
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