Thank you for your comment. I really appreciate your advice. I understand what your saying I guess it's just hard to wrap myself around the fact that he doesn't want to have sex. It's hard not to put myself down over it but I kno that's my own problem. I know he's stressed out, he says he is about a lot of things and I am too but I still enjoy sex. I wish there was an easy solution to this. But fortunately we don't have any bills or major expenses because we live at my parents house right now. Our relationship and living situation all happened real fast but it wasn't exactly planned out to be like this. 6 months ago he was living in an apartment with his ex girl of 2 years and had a car. There relationship wasn't what he truly wanted and he wasn't happy with it and me & him happened to hang out for the first time when this was goin on. He decided he wanted to be with me so he gave up his apartment and car that they shared to be with me and because of that had no where else to live so he started staying here a lot than ended up just moving in completly. Since I live with him it's hard to deal with this problem because I feel like it puts a strain on our relationship. My fear is that were not going to be as close because of it and it's makin me a lot more stressed and confused. I don't want it to turn into a bigger problem but it's really hard for me to accept it. 6 months is really fast to lose his sex drive as much as he did. I'm goin to do my best to understand where he's coming from and try and help him relieve so of his stress. But I'm gonna try and do my best to cope with it but if you have any other suggestions or advice please let me kno. Thank you so much for your time and sharing.
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Thank you for your comment. I really appreciate your advice. I understand what your saying I guess it's just hard to wrap myself around the fact that he doesn't want to have sex. It's hard not to put myself down over it but I kno that's my own problem. I know he's stressed out, he says he is about a lot of things and I am too but I still enjoy sex. I wish there was an easy solution to this. But fortunately we don't have any bills or major expenses because we live at my parents house right now. Our relationship and living situation all happened real fast but it wasn't exactly planned out to be like this. 6 months ago he was living in an apartment with his ex girl of 2 years and had a car. There relationship wasn't what he truly wanted and he wasn't happy with it and me & him happened to hang out for the first time when this was goin on. He decided he wanted to be with me so he gave up his apartment and car that they shared to be with me and because of that had no where else to live so he started staying here a lot than ended up just moving in completly. Since I live with him it's hard to deal with this problem because I feel like it puts a strain on our relationship. My fear is that were not going to be as close because of it and it's makin me a lot more stressed and confused. I don't want it to turn into a bigger problem but it's really hard for me to accept it. 6 months is really fast to lose his sex drive as much as he did. I'm goin to do my best to understand where he's coming from and try and help him relieve so of his stress. But I'm gonna try and do my best to cope with it but if you have any other suggestions or advice please let me kno. Thank you so much for your time and sharing.
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