Thank you for your question. This is tough because he is genuinely turned on by dirty talk while you are not.
Is there any happy-medium that you two can come to? Like have one night a week where he can talk dirty as long as other nights you have sex without it? Or is there an extent to where he talks dirty that you don't get turned off? Like maybe if he stops using the word "pussy"? I can honestly see how his feelings would be hurt by you telling him that it turns you off. As much as you think he is treating you like a stripper or whore lots of men do this and they do so because it turns them on, which is perfectly fine. With that being said, if you don't like it there is nothing he can say or do to change your mind but in order for both of you to be satisfied with your sex life there needs to be a compromise.
Are you willing to role play in order to get into character and accept this dirty talk a little better?
Is there any extent to which you actually tolerate dirty talk?
I know you wish you could eliminate it completely but doing so can only make him unhappy with your sex life.
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Dear Anon,
Thank you for your question. This is tough because he is genuinely turned on by dirty talk while you are not.
Is there any happy-medium that you two can come to? Like have one night a week where he can talk dirty as long as other nights you have sex without it? Or is there an extent to where he talks dirty that you don't get turned off? Like maybe if he stops using the word "pussy"? I can honestly see how his feelings would be hurt by you telling him that it turns you off. As much as you think he is treating you like a stripper or whore lots of men do this and they do so because it turns them on, which is perfectly fine. With that being said, if you don't like it there is nothing he can say or do to change your mind but in order for both of you to be satisfied with your sex life there needs to be a compromise.
Are you willing to role play in order to get into character and accept this dirty talk a little better?
Is there any extent to which you actually tolerate dirty talk?
I know you wish you could eliminate it completely but doing so can only make him unhappy with your sex life.
All the best
March 17, 2010 - 5:10amThis Comment
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