I understand that it's very inhibiting having his parents in the next room, but the thing is even when we're alone he doesn't initiate anything. Like last month when we had a beautiful hotel suite he wanted to go out and walk around or go to the movies. We hardly spent any time at all in the room except to sleep.
As for us getting our own place well that depends on what he decides to do jobwise.
I'm not putting any pressure on him because i know he is already stressed out.
No his family isn't very affectionate at all, in fact i dont think ive ever seen his parents or his bother kiss or hug.
He on the other hand loves to hug his mom and his nephews and nieces.
Just not me.
I know and it hurts my feelings because even if it's not something he likes doing he shouldn't move away when i wanna cuddle or when i want to kiss him.
He absolutly refuses to call me loving names (like honey, baby, sweetheart etc) and doesn't want me calling him those things either. He says it's rediculous and he's never going to be one of these men who are 'whipped' or all 'loveydovey' ,says it's just not in him.
We don't do many things alone. In fact he never hurries home after work. He will go do a million things that need to be doing, or go play basketball with his friends. Sometimes he doens't return home 'till 11 pm!
And when we go out on fridays he always asks his friends along and i end up the only girl there watching as they get hammerd (after which he is ALWAYS in the mood).
Also when we do have sex, it's not all that good for me. He doesn't spend a lot of time on me if you know what i mean..
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Hi Diane and thanks for your reply.
I understand that it's very inhibiting having his parents in the next room, but the thing is even when we're alone he doesn't initiate anything. Like last month when we had a beautiful hotel suite he wanted to go out and walk around or go to the movies. We hardly spent any time at all in the room except to sleep.
As for us getting our own place well that depends on what he decides to do jobwise.
I'm not putting any pressure on him because i know he is already stressed out.
No his family isn't very affectionate at all, in fact i dont think ive ever seen his parents or his bother kiss or hug.
He on the other hand loves to hug his mom and his nephews and nieces.
Just not me.
I know and it hurts my feelings because even if it's not something he likes doing he shouldn't move away when i wanna cuddle or when i want to kiss him.
He absolutly refuses to call me loving names (like honey, baby, sweetheart etc) and doesn't want me calling him those things either. He says it's rediculous and he's never going to be one of these men who are 'whipped' or all 'loveydovey' ,says it's just not in him.
We don't do many things alone. In fact he never hurries home after work. He will go do a million things that need to be doing, or go play basketball with his friends. Sometimes he doens't return home 'till 11 pm!
And when we go out on fridays he always asks his friends along and i end up the only girl there watching as they get hammerd (after which he is ALWAYS in the mood).
Also when we do have sex, it's not all that good for me. He doesn't spend a lot of time on me if you know what i mean..
March 30, 2010 - 4:38amThis Comment
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