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Dear Anon,
I would like to tell you the you are not alone in this problem you are experiencing. I am currently going through the same thing with my boyfriend of two years. We used to have sex all the time and now he is just not interested. He is stressed and has alot going on. But I know exactly how you feel, no matter what the issue is it makes you feel undesirable, not sexy and like he isnt attracted to you.

I am not an expert by any means but as a woman going through the same situation I would like to give my input. I hear alot of negative things he has been saying and doing to you. The whole no affection thing I know is hard too. You just want to feel loved and appreciated like you feel you do for him. It seems like he doesnt even consider your feelings. Saying that he is just not loveydovey and never will be. Sounds like he isnt willing to change or even try for the sake of your feeling. Now im not married but ANY relationship especially marriage is about compromise and communication. If you keep talking to him and he keeps giving you the same answers I think you may need to try and get him to go see a counselor. Let him know exactly how bad he is hurting you and how frustrated you are and let him know that if he cares about ur marriage at all he will do that for you. I understand the stress factor but counseling could help him manage his stress and deal with it better so it doesnt affect you and your relationship so much. I hope this helps some. I know ur frustration, try and hang in there like im doing. Its rough I know but hopefully things will get better. Best of Luck.
Mollie

April 12, 2010 - 2:07pm

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