Hi, so I thought I'd post back and let you all know what's been going on. I tried my damnest and did everything possible to fix this situation. But nothing seemed to be working, our sexlife was non-existant. I was lonely, hurt and humiliated. But neverhteless I believed everything he told me, all the excuses and explenations. Even though i knew better, I stayed with him. Near the end I had half convinced myslef that this is because of me, that somehow this is my fault.
After almost 2 years in this relationship I found out he had someone else all along. Someone he had been dating for 3 years before we met and who he justkept seeing.
So im writing this in the hope that maybe someone else out there is reading this, someone who just needs some prespective.
I would like to save you the pain I went through.
Let me tell you, it's all a bunch of crap. With the exeption of a few oddeties it's really kind of smiple: If he's not sleeping with you, he's sleeping with someone else.
I've left him and I feel happy again. My confidence is restored and I finally feel free.
Don't let anybody steal your identity and your confidence.
A relationship just shouldn't be this hard.
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Hi, so I thought I'd post back and let you all know what's been going on. I tried my damnest and did everything possible to fix this situation. But nothing seemed to be working, our sexlife was non-existant. I was lonely, hurt and humiliated. But neverhteless I believed everything he told me, all the excuses and explenations. Even though i knew better, I stayed with him. Near the end I had half convinced myslef that this is because of me, that somehow this is my fault.
After almost 2 years in this relationship I found out he had someone else all along. Someone he had been dating for 3 years before we met and who he justkept seeing.
So im writing this in the hope that maybe someone else out there is reading this, someone who just needs some prespective.
I would like to save you the pain I went through.
Let me tell you, it's all a bunch of crap. With the exeption of a few oddeties it's really kind of smiple: If he's not sleeping with you, he's sleeping with someone else.
I've left him and I feel happy again. My confidence is restored and I finally feel free.
Don't let anybody steal your identity and your confidence.
A relationship just shouldn't be this hard.
Hope my expirience helps you somewhat.
July 13, 2011 - 12:34pmThis Comment
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