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so i tried talking to him today and he refused to say anything so he reverted to anger and just shoved it off. i don't understand i take his feelings and needs seriously but when it comes to this he doesn't care. when i asked him about it he was like "the way i see it your complaining about the 2 percent that don't satisfy you" i was like so because you buy me things that means that the fact that this is a big deal to me means that you don't have to care because you buy me stuff. that really hurt my feelings because i hate the fact that he buys me things because im not working and that is a sensitive issue foe me because i am an independent person and the fact that i cant do for myself is taring me apart!!!!! how do i get him to listen and understand without getting all defensive i love him and i want to work it out