My comment about this is that I care for my mom and that is very difficult under any circumstance so if this is interfering with your relationship, try to make some time to get away.
Right now, I have a daughter that is with a man and she is expecting her first child. Their relationship is rocky all of the time. I'm trying to understand what she is getting out of the relationship and wanting to advise her as best I can without telling her to completely get out of the relationship. I know that I am hearing only the bad about the relationship. We went the other day to see the first ultrasound for the baby and he is such a jealous man that all of the way up there, he told me that he was going to leave her that day and that he didn't think the baby was his. (This is not true but he has always been so jealous that he was just being argumentative.) and he is in his early 30s and should be old enough but to my mind he does not offer much. He does not drive, does not have a license, or a job and seems to be somewhat unwilling to put forth much effort to get one. I told my daughter to get a DNA test done and that way he will shut up about that. But I'm really afraid that his argumentative nature will completely ruin the relationship. He doesn't like any of her friends and forbids her to go with them, and got mad when she took someone home from work the other night and she's currently "not telling" him when she sees her friends because she believes that she has a right to friends. He feels that because he is not working, he sits home all day long just waiting for her. (I think he has too much time on his hands)
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My comment about this is that I care for my mom and that is very difficult under any circumstance so if this is interfering with your relationship, try to make some time to get away.
Right now, I have a daughter that is with a man and she is expecting her first child. Their relationship is rocky all of the time. I'm trying to understand what she is getting out of the relationship and wanting to advise her as best I can without telling her to completely get out of the relationship. I know that I am hearing only the bad about the relationship. We went the other day to see the first ultrasound for the baby and he is such a jealous man that all of the way up there, he told me that he was going to leave her that day and that he didn't think the baby was his. (This is not true but he has always been so jealous that he was just being argumentative.) and he is in his early 30s and should be old enough but to my mind he does not offer much. He does not drive, does not have a license, or a job and seems to be somewhat unwilling to put forth much effort to get one. I told my daughter to get a DNA test done and that way he will shut up about that. But I'm really afraid that his argumentative nature will completely ruin the relationship. He doesn't like any of her friends and forbids her to go with them, and got mad when she took someone home from work the other night and she's currently "not telling" him when she sees her friends because she believes that she has a right to friends. He feels that because he is not working, he sits home all day long just waiting for her. (I think he has too much time on his hands)
Any opinions??
March 27, 2010 - 5:51pmThis Comment
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