Thanks for the post. It kind of sounds like if one test has shook up your marriage in such a way maybe you should both focus on communication and compassion for each-other. Learn to play on the same team if you really do believe you are both faithful instead of a he said she said. For a test to drive two people apart is to shine a light on where your energy is really going... I always ask myself, do I want to see the situations life presents me as a problem or as an opportunity? I think I just got trich from a new partner and we haven't had the sex talk and its a very exciting new relationship, this is a bummer but its also an opening for me to A: get tested, and B: have a real conversation with someone that will either make us closer or further apart(which if its further, will technically help me put my time to better use if it is time for the relationship to end)
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Thanks for the post. It kind of sounds like if one test has shook up your marriage in such a way maybe you should both focus on communication and compassion for each-other. Learn to play on the same team if you really do believe you are both faithful instead of a he said she said. For a test to drive two people apart is to shine a light on where your energy is really going... I always ask myself, do I want to see the situations life presents me as a problem or as an opportunity? I think I just got trich from a new partner and we haven't had the sex talk and its a very exciting new relationship, this is a bummer but its also an opening for me to A: get tested, and B: have a real conversation with someone that will either make us closer or further apart(which if its further, will technically help me put my time to better use if it is time for the relationship to end)
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