I am sorry to hear that your relationship has gone sour. The key to all relationships is communication. You must let him know how you are feeling and not that he has to agree with you, but at least understand and try to help work through what you are feeling. No one likes to feel unwanted in a relationship.
Since you have tried to talk to him in the past about this situation and you are not satisfied, try again. Explain to him that you feel as if he is brushing you off and that this is very important to you. I am certain that if he had something important to talk about to you, he would try and try again to get your attention about the matter.
Thinking from a different prospective, many people like to be the submissive one in a relationship. He may be turned on by the fact that you always initiate sex. You have become the pursuer in the relationship by trying hard not to lose his interest, right? Explain this to him. If he loves you, he will listen and try to make you happy.
All relationships get comfortable over time. If he is no longer purchasing flowers for you, don't take it personally. Think of it this way, he no longer feels the need to 'woo' you. Relationships are not easy and can take the back road at times. The most important thing to try and keep the love alive is to have two people that are trying to keep the relationship alive. With that said, two people must be willing to give 100% at all times. This is impossible, we all have “one of those days”. If “one of those days” becomes months, then intervention is needed and this is where understanding and communication must be 110% on both ends.
Remember if he is uninterested in working on your relationship, you may have to make a decision that is life changing. No one wants to be unhappy in a relationship but remember that all relationships will have their ups and downs so be open minded.
I hope this helps and I hope he will try to communicate with you. Here is a post that is always ongoing with EmpowHer that may interest you in what other people have tried in their relationships. Believe me when I say your not alone. Good luck and keep us posted https://www.empowher.com/search/google?cx=001740413268797642882%3Axdyajny4mzk&cof=FORID%3A11&query=boyfriend+and+no+sex&op=GO&form_build_id=form-128d4ac7d3134fa7258b7993d4049237&form_token=6b7c4b6ed1091170207588820c18f8c8&form_id=google_cse_searchbox_form#1098.
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Hi Anonymous,
I am sorry to hear that your relationship has gone sour. The key to all relationships is communication. You must let him know how you are feeling and not that he has to agree with you, but at least understand and try to help work through what you are feeling. No one likes to feel unwanted in a relationship.
Since you have tried to talk to him in the past about this situation and you are not satisfied, try again. Explain to him that you feel as if he is brushing you off and that this is very important to you. I am certain that if he had something important to talk about to you, he would try and try again to get your attention about the matter.
Thinking from a different prospective, many people like to be the submissive one in a relationship. He may be turned on by the fact that you always initiate sex. You have become the pursuer in the relationship by trying hard not to lose his interest, right? Explain this to him. If he loves you, he will listen and try to make you happy.
All relationships get comfortable over time. If he is no longer purchasing flowers for you, don't take it personally. Think of it this way, he no longer feels the need to 'woo' you. Relationships are not easy and can take the back road at times. The most important thing to try and keep the love alive is to have two people that are trying to keep the relationship alive. With that said, two people must be willing to give 100% at all times. This is impossible, we all have “one of those days”. If “one of those days” becomes months, then intervention is needed and this is where understanding and communication must be 110% on both ends.
Remember if he is uninterested in working on your relationship, you may have to make a decision that is life changing. No one wants to be unhappy in a relationship but remember that all relationships will have their ups and downs so be open minded.
I hope this helps and I hope he will try to communicate with you. Here is a post that is always ongoing with EmpowHer that may interest you in what other people have tried in their relationships. Believe me when I say your not alone. Good luck and keep us posted https://www.empowher.com/search/google?cx=001740413268797642882%3Axdyajny4mzk&cof=FORID%3A11&query=boyfriend+and+no+sex&op=GO&form_build_id=form-128d4ac7d3134fa7258b7993d4049237&form_token=6b7c4b6ed1091170207588820c18f8c8&form_id=google_cse_searchbox_form#1098.
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