I'm not sure there's anything that YOU can do. This doesn't sound like your problem as much as it sounds like there is something else going on with your boyfriend. I understand why it would make you feel rejected, but if you focus on that aspect of it you won't be focusing on the real thing.
What you're saying, if we boil it down, is that:
-- the sexual relationship between the two of you changed a few months ago, and
-- he isn't desiring you when he sees you on the weekends, and
-- he gets defensive and doesn't want to talk about it.
I don't want to be harsh, but is it possible that something else is going on? Is it possible that he is seeing someone else at school? Or that internet porn may be involved? Have other aspects of your relationship changed as well?
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Cheeks,
I'm not sure there's anything that YOU can do. This doesn't sound like your problem as much as it sounds like there is something else going on with your boyfriend. I understand why it would make you feel rejected, but if you focus on that aspect of it you won't be focusing on the real thing.
What you're saying, if we boil it down, is that:
-- the sexual relationship between the two of you changed a few months ago, and
-- he isn't desiring you when he sees you on the weekends, and
-- he gets defensive and doesn't want to talk about it.
I don't want to be harsh, but is it possible that something else is going on? Is it possible that he is seeing someone else at school? Or that internet porn may be involved? Have other aspects of your relationship changed as well?
May 5, 2010 - 9:31amThis Comment
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