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I am looking for some clarity because honestly I am at my wits end. I'm close to divorcing my husband because of this matter. My husband was always use to dating curvier women, and I believe that curvy women are beautiful. But I am not a coke bottle shape. However I do have some curves but its just not what he is use to. But to get straight to the point he wants me to have a bigger toosh. He said he wants me to tone up my body and grow a bigger butt. Now I'm okay with working out and toning up because I don't mind working out. But the root cause of why I hate when he nags me about it is because he once committed infedelity with someone that was on the curvier side, and I feel he wants me to look a certain way just to meet the criteria of the women he use to be with and it makes me insecure. I want to be all my husband wants but I dont want to change into something I'm not or have to pretend to be. Please give me some advice.