long story buy highlights!!! I know first hand, I met someone on line after my husband died,it was just for talk and to help with the loneliness , well friended several other men and I had made it clear would not meet anyone untill the 1 yr, out of respect and love for my husband. well 2 of the frinds were to be in my city after talking for 2 months, (my husband had been gone 8 months before I got online,) so I agreed to meet them ,and since I was interested in the guy who lived and worked in same city as me wanted to meet him first, so I did , we hit it off, we have mostly been togeter since, , it had been 10 months since my husband had passed away, 11 months before making love with new man. now a yr laterwith him (2 yrs since husband passed), he has told me I am the love of his life, he wants needs and loves me, well you get the picture, he does so many things to back up his words, but he has flirted on line behind my back, I always find out and not by snooping , anyway I had told him how much that hurt me, I also said he could do whatevr he wanted I was not trying to control him but MY man, I would not tolerate that,and if he wanted more he should be honest cuase I could have more too, so he had a choice , he wanted to me my man or he didn't, he was sorry made promises wanted me ! things were so good and I truley thought I had the fairytale only to find out he was talking sex online and exchanging naked crotch shots with her,and lying to my face, I was done with him, but I loved him so much, he begged promised , gave me access to all put one e-mail acct, ??? and his actions all say he loves me and realizes he made a big mistake, but I have this little voice that keeps saying yes he loves you cares and wants you but he will never change and he most likely has things hidden so you can't find and most likely in the acct he won;t let you see, (he says legal reasons, but he also says he trust me with his very life!!!??) So what do I do???? trust him or cut him loose???
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long story buy highlights!!! I know first hand, I met someone on line after my husband died,it was just for talk and to help with the loneliness , well friended several other men and I had made it clear would not meet anyone untill the 1 yr, out of respect and love for my husband. well 2 of the frinds were to be in my city after talking for 2 months, (my husband had been gone 8 months before I got online,) so I agreed to meet them ,and since I was interested in the guy who lived and worked in same city as me wanted to meet him first, so I did , we hit it off, we have mostly been togeter since, , it had been 10 months since my husband had passed away, 11 months before making love with new man. now a yr laterwith him (2 yrs since husband passed), he has told me I am the love of his life, he wants needs and loves me, well you get the picture, he does so many things to back up his words, but he has flirted on line behind my back, I always find out and not by snooping , anyway I had told him how much that hurt me, I also said he could do whatevr he wanted I was not trying to control him but MY man, I would not tolerate that,and if he wanted more he should be honest cuase I could have more too, so he had a choice , he wanted to me my man or he didn't, he was sorry made promises wanted me ! things were so good and I truley thought I had the fairytale only to find out he was talking sex online and exchanging naked crotch shots with her,and lying to my face, I was done with him, but I loved him so much, he begged promised , gave me access to all put one e-mail acct, ??? and his actions all say he loves me and realizes he made a big mistake, but I have this little voice that keeps saying yes he loves you cares and wants you but he will never change and he most likely has things hidden so you can't find and most likely in the acct he won;t let you see, (he says legal reasons, but he also says he trust me with his very life!!!??) So what do I do???? trust him or cut him loose???
June 1, 2012 - 8:19amThis Comment
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