Hey Karma,
I'm a guy and personally im not addicted to porn at all but a lot of my friends are. However,id suggest you talk things out with him,think of it like this,yea agreed he was pathetic to you and all of that but he more like took advantage of you always being with you,the second you broke up..he realised your importance and got back to you,if he can do so much try doing a little from your side,ask urself if you'll be okay with him watching porn but not letting it affect ur sex life,if he can watch porn only when he wants to and can control his desire and not be controlled himself by such stuff. Maybe he really wants you cuz u mean much more to him than all of tht,and honestly speaking even people who watch a lot of porn tend to have a lot of sex and more than usual normally because fantasizing isn't the end,they like trying such stuff for in real. So i dunt noe,i aint too experienced myself but i guess u CAN give him the benefit of the doubt.
However,if you can stay without him and if you think tht the scars will always remain and u can never 4get it ALL then let go of it and try being there for each other until ur over each other. Gud luck=)
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Hey Karma,
I'm a guy and personally im not addicted to porn at all but a lot of my friends are. However,id suggest you talk things out with him,think of it like this,yea agreed he was pathetic to you and all of that but he more like took advantage of you always being with you,the second you broke up..he realised your importance and got back to you,if he can do so much try doing a little from your side,ask urself if you'll be okay with him watching porn but not letting it affect ur sex life,if he can watch porn only when he wants to and can control his desire and not be controlled himself by such stuff. Maybe he really wants you cuz u mean much more to him than all of tht,and honestly speaking even people who watch a lot of porn tend to have a lot of sex and more than usual normally because fantasizing isn't the end,they like trying such stuff for in real. So i dunt noe,i aint too experienced myself but i guess u CAN give him the benefit of the doubt.
However,if you can stay without him and if you think tht the scars will always remain and u can never 4get it ALL then let go of it and try being there for each other until ur over each other. Gud luck=)
August 16, 2010 - 9:44amThis Comment
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