I can understand why you feel the way you do. The issue though is with him and what he feels are his needs. As hard as it is to understand, it really has nothing to do with you, the frequency that you have sex with him, or your availability for him. It is an additional outlet over and above the frequency of sex. Masturbation has been a pleasurable activity for him ever since he was a young boy. It's not cheating. It's not that he has any preference for any other woman than you. It's just a way to round out his sexual needs without cheating with another woman. Most men don't admit how often they do it due to embarassment. They are embarassed at having pictures of other women around. They may get mad when they get caught masturbating, or reprimanded more out of shame and embarassment than true anger. Inside, they do feel some shame about it. Understand it for what it is and don't ruin an otherwise good relationship because of it.
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I can understand why you feel the way you do. The issue though is with him and what he feels are his needs. As hard as it is to understand, it really has nothing to do with you, the frequency that you have sex with him, or your availability for him. It is an additional outlet over and above the frequency of sex. Masturbation has been a pleasurable activity for him ever since he was a young boy. It's not cheating. It's not that he has any preference for any other woman than you. It's just a way to round out his sexual needs without cheating with another woman. Most men don't admit how often they do it due to embarassment. They are embarassed at having pictures of other women around. They may get mad when they get caught masturbating, or reprimanded more out of shame and embarassment than true anger. Inside, they do feel some shame about it. Understand it for what it is and don't ruin an otherwise good relationship because of it.
February 10, 2011 - 2:44pmThis Comment
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