I have just broken up with my partner of six years because I cannot accept his need to masturbate over porn and images of other women. I have just had a baby, she is now 4 months old, I have been extremely ill with mental health problems and cannot take the stress of living with a partner that does this. I actually find the porn less upsetting than the masturbation over other women, when it was the porn his excuse was he enjoyed watching the act of sex, but I am unable to understand why he has to go on the adult channels on sky and get off on watching scantily clad women just laying there, I find this soul destroying. He has watched it online, on telly, and when I was in the psychiatric ward 8 months pregnant with his baby he even watched it on his phone round his mothers house. He says he averages masturbating over this smut about 3 times a week and sometimes he does it in his lunch hour too when I am not home. He has lied about his use of it over and over again. Porn is not harmless, for the first time in my life I have become ashamed of my body, I also cannot give myself sexually to a man who can come over practically any woman, it does not make me feel special. It has destroyed our relationship.
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I have just broken up with my partner of six years because I cannot accept his need to masturbate over porn and images of other women. I have just had a baby, she is now 4 months old, I have been extremely ill with mental health problems and cannot take the stress of living with a partner that does this. I actually find the porn less upsetting than the masturbation over other women, when it was the porn his excuse was he enjoyed watching the act of sex, but I am unable to understand why he has to go on the adult channels on sky and get off on watching scantily clad women just laying there, I find this soul destroying. He has watched it online, on telly, and when I was in the psychiatric ward 8 months pregnant with his baby he even watched it on his phone round his mothers house. He says he averages masturbating over this smut about 3 times a week and sometimes he does it in his lunch hour too when I am not home. He has lied about his use of it over and over again. Porn is not harmless, for the first time in my life I have become ashamed of my body, I also cannot give myself sexually to a man who can come over practically any woman, it does not make me feel special. It has destroyed our relationship.
August 25, 2011 - 12:49amThis Comment
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