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(reply to laticia27)

No reason to be sorry by how you feel. Everyone has been there at one time or another. Its hard at first trying to "elimiate" someone from your life. It really is, but I have found that the first few days are te hardest. Myself I try to occupy my time doing things that are kind of mind numbing, I play a lot of video games which keeps my mind off things or I immerse myself in books/movies...none which has a romance plot of any kind that way I don't start missing someone who I am better off with out. Another thing I do is definatly erase their number from my phone and anywhere else it may be, if it is memorized its a bit harder obvisouly but before calling try to stop for about ten minuets and rationalize why you are calling. I have found that being emotional dosent help things at all when calling an ex. I actually found indifferenct towards them to be very helpful in moving on, kind of like if you are calling cuz he has someof your things then only call for that reason and once you are done get off the phone. This way you are not giving him control of how you feel. I have also found that keeping a journal about your thoughts and feelings helps me a lot to. that way you can say everythign you have to about or directed towareds him with out actually having to talk to him.

June 14, 2010 - 11:44am

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