I am in my mid fifties and have been dating a man I met online for almost 3 years. In the beginning we saw each other once a week (he works Saturdays) and sex was outstanding. The second year we only saw each other twice a month and the third year it dropped to once a month, seemingly because of work schedules or other circumstances. Those few times we saw each other we rarely had any sex. I gave him bjs, but that was all there was and I started to feel rejected and unwanted. I know he has problems at work, he does look at porn a lot and that might all contribute, BUT: last time I saw him 3 weeks ago I left kind of hurt, because he would not even touch me or let me touch him and I wrote him a short email explaining that I felt sad that apparently he doesn't want me any longer. Since then no reply and no call. He knows where to find me.
So I am thinking about dating other men again hoping to find what I am looking for, yet 3 years is a long time and I do have feelings for him, he was always sweet and kind and worst of all he gave me so many gifts despite not being well off himself, so I feel sort of obliged but I can't wait forever. He said he wasn"t seeing anybody else and frankly I think he is too tired for that anyway, but then again who knows. I am a bit torn.
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I am in my mid fifties and have been dating a man I met online for almost 3 years. In the beginning we saw each other once a week (he works Saturdays) and sex was outstanding. The second year we only saw each other twice a month and the third year it dropped to once a month, seemingly because of work schedules or other circumstances. Those few times we saw each other we rarely had any sex. I gave him bjs, but that was all there was and I started to feel rejected and unwanted. I know he has problems at work, he does look at porn a lot and that might all contribute, BUT: last time I saw him 3 weeks ago I left kind of hurt, because he would not even touch me or let me touch him and I wrote him a short email explaining that I felt sad that apparently he doesn't want me any longer. Since then no reply and no call. He knows where to find me.
December 26, 2010 - 5:49amSo I am thinking about dating other men again hoping to find what I am looking for, yet 3 years is a long time and I do have feelings for him, he was always sweet and kind and worst of all he gave me so many gifts despite not being well off himself, so I feel sort of obliged but I can't wait forever. He said he wasn"t seeing anybody else and frankly I think he is too tired for that anyway, but then again who knows. I am a bit torn.
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