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Hi plgred,
What a tough thing, right? Do you marry or not marry? As someone who has been divorced in the past, I can honestly tell you that the doubts you are having are there for a reason. My own experience showed me some things that weren't right, and I ignored it thinking that it was immaturity and we would change for the better after being married, or that being married would help us be more bonded to work things out. In my experience it's not true. In my opinion, if you're having doubts, it may be time to think about taking a real step back and seeing what else is out there. Talk with your fiance, he may be having similar doubts. Marriage is tough even without an issue like sex compatibility going into it. If he really is your best friend, he wants you to be happy just like you want him to. I know you two will work it out. Please be confident to know you will be OK no matter what happens. Please come back and let us know how you're doing. You deserve that 100% relationship, don't settle.