Hey.Such an interesting article, wonderful feedback too.
I was in a very difficult relationship with and aspie man, years ago.He wouldn't admit that he had challenges to work with, so, He made me own my part AND his in the relationship.Which wore me down.
In contrast to that, I have met a man who admits he is on the spectrum and works hard at owning his part in out friendship.Which is liberating, in any relationship.
To me, the whole aspie idea, is more about awareness, on both sides.I know I can give too much, which makes him feel awkward,so it's great reminder for me to concentrate on my passions.
We are working on developing a friendship.Which is foundation to all future happiness and troubles.
Who wants to rush into any relationship?Why do peeps want to be intimate in a rush?Why do peeps want sex, outside of a true commitment?We share 'needs,' in a relationship, tho, let's be aware of our 'needyneess.'...
I'm guessing there are amazingly beautiful peeps who step up and take responsibity in relationships in both aspie and non aspie situations.To be sure of which you are dealing with takes time.Immediate attraction is nice, but a foundation for nothing.Step back and really look and see if that person is truly worthy.Dont Rush to give intimacy.That goes for all types of relationships.Be patient.
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Hey.Such an interesting article, wonderful feedback too.
April 7, 2015 - 3:59pmI was in a very difficult relationship with and aspie man, years ago.He wouldn't admit that he had challenges to work with, so, He made me own my part AND his in the relationship.Which wore me down.
In contrast to that, I have met a man who admits he is on the spectrum and works hard at owning his part in out friendship.Which is liberating, in any relationship.
To me, the whole aspie idea, is more about awareness, on both sides.I know I can give too much, which makes him feel awkward,so it's great reminder for me to concentrate on my passions.
We are working on developing a friendship.Which is foundation to all future happiness and troubles.
Who wants to rush into any relationship?Why do peeps want to be intimate in a rush?Why do peeps want sex, outside of a true commitment?We share 'needs,' in a relationship, tho, let's be aware of our 'needyneess.'...
I'm guessing there are amazingly beautiful peeps who step up and take responsibity in relationships in both aspie and non aspie situations.To be sure of which you are dealing with takes time.Immediate attraction is nice, but a foundation for nothing.Step back and really look and see if that person is truly worthy.Dont Rush to give intimacy.That goes for all types of relationships.Be patient.
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