Question is, if you all are still together, did she know you have Aspergers? Because it can be beneficial for her to know so she can educate herself, unless she's just a diva. I am seriously in love with someone with Aspergers and personally for me its easier because I need a lot of alone time and can't have someone up my ass 24/7 I need be able to say " ya know what, I love you, but I can't talk to you or be around you or any one right now for (insert amount of time here)" without them getting offended. I need someone who can tell it like it is without caring if I get offended. Thats the thing, people shouldn't be in relationships because they force other people to meet their needs, they should be together because they are attracted to each other. No one is on this planet to serve another person (I.guess unless they are your children.) I find so many people on the planet just use each other and lie to each other in order to feel acceptable and have self worth, which I think is bullshit. People should be together cause they like to, cause it makes them feel good, not cause they feel expected to or pressured because if they dont, their significant other will act like a diva or entitled to their expectations. The way human kind functions isnt right in my opinion thats why I hate when people say oh neurotypical people are "normal" and everyone should be trained on how to please them to be accepted when in reality or how I see it people with Aspergers are some of the only people i've met on the planet who know how to meet their own needs and dont subconsciously use and manipulate other people to get self validation. So actually the neurotypical world needs to be more like that so we don't continue to form co-dependant relationships with each other. Anyway thats my opinion. This man who I love is a force of nature ill tell you that, but it just really hurts me knowing how hard his life was and still is and what he went through especially in school. I just wanna understand him more. Anyway.,,.
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Question is, if you all are still together, did she know you have Aspergers? Because it can be beneficial for her to know so she can educate herself, unless she's just a diva. I am seriously in love with someone with Aspergers and personally for me its easier because I need a lot of alone time and can't have someone up my ass 24/7 I need be able to say " ya know what, I love you, but I can't talk to you or be around you or any one right now for (insert amount of time here)" without them getting offended. I need someone who can tell it like it is without caring if I get offended. Thats the thing, people shouldn't be in relationships because they force other people to meet their needs, they should be together because they are attracted to each other. No one is on this planet to serve another person (I.guess unless they are your children.) I find so many people on the planet just use each other and lie to each other in order to feel acceptable and have self worth, which I think is bullshit. People should be together cause they like to, cause it makes them feel good, not cause they feel expected to or pressured because if they dont, their significant other will act like a diva or entitled to their expectations. The way human kind functions isnt right in my opinion thats why I hate when people say oh neurotypical people are "normal" and everyone should be trained on how to please them to be accepted when in reality or how I see it people with Aspergers are some of the only people i've met on the planet who know how to meet their own needs and dont subconsciously use and manipulate other people to get self validation. So actually the neurotypical world needs to be more like that so we don't continue to form co-dependant relationships with each other. Anyway thats my opinion. This man who I love is a force of nature ill tell you that, but it just really hurts me knowing how hard his life was and still is and what he went through especially in school. I just wanna understand him more. Anyway.,,.
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