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I'm tired of trying to communicate and live with my man. I'm normally known for being really good with people, but here i feel im slowly going crazy. And it's always me, he sais. He does nothing wrong in hos own mind it seems. I feel that he wants me around, but i must kind of leve him alone with his routines. He has quite strict routines. He is very happy sitting inn front of hos computer, and playing piano, inside all weekend Even in amazing weather. I am suggesting trips. He might agree to join me, but rarly suggest anything himself. Joining me for short trips, but is longing back to his indoor habits. He forgets things even if he is to buy only two things. He is distant. Cold. Pulls away after a normal reaction from me to his strange insults (he does not understand he is insensitive and insulting because he forgets things or have a creative somehow unrealistic alternativeperspective). He rather gets defensive and make me feel like im irrational reacting the way i do. Im used to having normal healthy reactions. Im tired of dealing with this. He is in any other way warm and loving but its so on and off somehow. What can i do?