I just had a break up with an over 3 year relationship with a man who has Asperger. It was a very painful relationship. He is very smart and into playing music. Nothing could interrupt his routine. He planned over our plans. I bent over backwards to help him through school and keep our yard and homes kept up. He was very reluctant to help with anything ever. He asked me to do nearly everything for him and he was ok with that. No eye contact, no serious talking, no affection. He walked out with his daughter who is 5 years old to get slurpees and never came back. Only to get his clothes, guitars, guns and an entire bowl of condoms. So I packed him with a broken heart. Not what I wanted and that there is a child involved is worse. He does not understand what this has done to her or myself. He simply figures its not a big deal. I am staying in her life though her mother and his mother in that none of us agree that she should feel people are disposable. Somethings he spectrum does not understand. I still love him but I can't be with a man who can move on so very quickly and who was comfortable letting me do everything and taking me down financially. He still owes me some money but paid off most of what he borrowed for all of his music gear. It was a struggle. I tries so hard. I have anxiety so that may not have helped. I was open about that and tried to not let it effect our life. that was also a struggle.
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I just had a break up with an over 3 year relationship with a man who has Asperger. It was a very painful relationship. He is very smart and into playing music. Nothing could interrupt his routine. He planned over our plans. I bent over backwards to help him through school and keep our yard and homes kept up. He was very reluctant to help with anything ever. He asked me to do nearly everything for him and he was ok with that. No eye contact, no serious talking, no affection. He walked out with his daughter who is 5 years old to get slurpees and never came back. Only to get his clothes, guitars, guns and an entire bowl of condoms. So I packed him with a broken heart. Not what I wanted and that there is a child involved is worse. He does not understand what this has done to her or myself. He simply figures its not a big deal. I am staying in her life though her mother and his mother in that none of us agree that she should feel people are disposable. Somethings he spectrum does not understand. I still love him but I can't be with a man who can move on so very quickly and who was comfortable letting me do everything and taking me down financially. He still owes me some money but paid off most of what he borrowed for all of his music gear. It was a struggle. I tries so hard. I have anxiety so that may not have helped. I was open about that and tried to not let it effect our life. that was also a struggle.
April 17, 2017 - 4:56pmThis Comment
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