The truth is that in long term relationships, people tend to get comfortable and sometimes they stop wooing the other person as you feel as if you don't have to anymore.
The most important thing to remember in a long term relationship is to communicate and compromise. Talk to him about your feelings and try to come up with a solution. Maybe you can try to get him to start an intimate day on Wednesday and you can on Friday. There will be some days that you will not be feeling your 100% in the relationship and he may make up for your loss of interest (bad day at work, kids screaming all morning, etc.). You should also understand his issues (stress, work issues, etc.)
Try to talk to him without blame. Communicate without placing blame on how you are feeling, instead try and come up with a solution as stated above. Does this give you some good ideas?
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Hi Saint Sinner,
The truth is that in long term relationships, people tend to get comfortable and sometimes they stop wooing the other person as you feel as if you don't have to anymore.
The most important thing to remember in a long term relationship is to communicate and compromise. Talk to him about your feelings and try to come up with a solution. Maybe you can try to get him to start an intimate day on Wednesday and you can on Friday. There will be some days that you will not be feeling your 100% in the relationship and he may make up for your loss of interest (bad day at work, kids screaming all morning, etc.). You should also understand his issues (stress, work issues, etc.)
Try to talk to him without blame. Communicate without placing blame on how you are feeling, instead try and come up with a solution as stated above. Does this give you some good ideas?
July 31, 2010 - 9:29amThis Comment
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