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Can you tell us more information about your situation?

Are you currently in a sexual relationship, and are finding that you are no longer as "easily" aroused physically?

Are you mentally and emotionally connecting with your partner, but something is not "quite right" physically--or--are you also not "in the mood" emotionally?

Are you wanting to know how to get your partner to have sexual feelings towards you, or is this for you?

There are so many "what if" scenarios, and each have a completely different response. It would be helpful to know:
- your age
- do you have a location for sexual intimacy (ie, are you in your own home or apartment, do you share a dorm room with a roommate)
- if sexual feelings or physical reactions have changed, or if this is a new relationship?
- do you mean "quickly" as in "in the moment", or do you mean "quickly" as in, "wanting the relationship to progress to the next level quickly?"

Do you or your partner have any physical limitations to reaching sexual arousal?

Please know that so much of sexual arousal begins in our brains. There must be many things in place first, such as physical attraction, emotional connection, trust, intimacy, etc. Then there are the physical components, everything from your body's ability to sexually respond (as well as your partner's), to medical conditions, etc.

Tell us more about you and your situation, as this is such a complex issue, and we are happy to help!