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(reply to Cary Cook BSN RN)

Hi Cary,

I wanted to give you an update on how things have been going. I stopped being concerned with the relationship issue's or lack of sex, etc. and started focusing on my priorities, responsabilities, my children, etc. I no longer bring up why we have less sex and I no longer search for answer's from him but I rather observe his actions. I stay silent and know that if I'm unhappy I can go. Nothing is keeping me here but me. Love is a controlable thing and even though it may hurt to walk away if that is what is needed then that is what I will do. I have taken back my power and know now that I don't need a man to complete me. Since the change in my attitude my boyfriend has came around alittle more in the sex department but still I deal with his disrespect towards me at times. All I know is once I get a job and if his disrespect continues I will silently plan to leave him. I think highly of myself and don't deserve to be treated like that and I won't live the rest of my life like that when there is a big world out there and opportunities are always around the corner. For now I'm giving him the benefit of the doubt and not worrying if he is cheating or who is he texting or why is he guarding his cell phone, etc. I'm happier and sometimes I think it anger's him that he can't break me or hurt me or stop me from doing what I want. I love this site and all the help and oppinions of others. So that is the status and maybe your right it won't work because of how the relationship came about but at least I can say "I tried."

December 2, 2010 - 8:15pm

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