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Hi Anonymous,
I agree you need to talk with him. It's on your mind (both having a baby and how your perception that people talk bugging you). It sounds like you need some reassurance, and it's my humble opinion that the best place is to hear it from your love so you can design a united front against the World. I have been through divorce, and know how it can do a number on your self-esteem particularly if the relationship was emotionally abusive in any way. I believe that the best revenge (on your ex and on those nay-sayers) is living well, and being happy. Avoid any drama.
You keep talking about how great the sex is...if the sex wasn't so great, would you still be with him? Or is your relationship based on it? There will very likely come a time when the sex won't be as (whatever it is) without a lot of hard work on both your parts.
Another thing to consider: If you place so much value in what other people think, are you living for you? Or are you living to impress others?
Think about all this, and talk with your man. You're ready for the next step, you may want to figure out if he is too so you can proceed toward the direction you want to go. I'm confident that if he's as great as you say he is, you will come to a mutual decision about your future together.
There is a Group here about women with much older men. It may be good for you to communicate with them and learn from their experiences also. Or start your own Group for women with younger men:
https://www.empowher.com/groups/large-age-difference-me-and-my-boyfriend-husband
Good luck and let us know how it all turns out.