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Thank you for sharing your perspective from a mans point of view. Actually my husband did talk about feeling "ashamed" othat he masturbated and that's part of the reason he didn't tell me. He knows it is a big turn on for me to watch him masturbate but he claims to only do it when he Is horny and I'm not home. I think he just wants to be in his own fantasy world when he does that and there's no room for me there. He knows I like watching porn too and we used to watch it together but he hasn't wanted to watch it in years. If he's watching lesbians or people having sex as he claims to, it would turn me on watching him masturbatecto that stuff... that stuff makes me horny too! He also told me he's masturbated when I'm not home because he's bored. What is that? If he makes himself "in the mood" just because he's bored I can give him a list of household chores to do to occupy his time! I would love it if he called me and told me to come home right away because he wants me and needs to touch me and have sex with me... again another turn on for me. It doesn't take much to get me going and he knows that... do everything and he knows that. So where am I going wrong?