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Hi Alison thanks for the reply back. well as you were asking me if he was legitimatley stress? I really think hes stress and sometimes depressed. I feel like his ex wife always give me a hard time and uses there child as a weapon! So when the weekend comes and its his time to spend with his child she might up and say no! And then i can see durning the week that it bothers him and hes just not in the mood to have sex. And this has been on going for the 9 months we have been living with eachother:( I have tryed to talk to him and see if i can cheer him up but whatever he's feeling hes like a rock he wont move. But as you said sex would be the first litmus test if he not solved any unresolved issues with his ex family. And it scares me because i know his ex wife isnt going to change and i feel like she just might ruin his life and our relationship and i dont want that to happen because i love him alot. I know most girls would just leave in this situation but i do have paticent for him and i love him and i want to try and help fix things between us!
Please help
thanks!