Ok, hi 'luvhellokitty24', I'm Charlie, my boyfriend is called Derrick. We have been together everyday since the end of May. I did, however, meet him on a drunken night out and had a 'fumble' in the bushes. Ever since then we have been with each other each day ( apart from maybe 2 at the most). At first, we were having sex 2-3 times a day! We weren't even together, so far, we have 'officially' been together around 2 months. I do care for him a lot, maybe love. He says he loves me. We got a puppy together, who is very cute but I am beginning to get jealous of the amount of attention he gives the dog. Since we got him, the sex has completely died down. He is great in bed which pushes thoughts of me leaving him completely out. Of course, I would never leave over such silly things, there is obviously others which make me consider it. Last week I started my period, as usual, no sex for that week, as usual, but this time I was waiting for my period to end for me to begin taking the Pill, so we can have unprotected sex, carefree. Clinically checked, of course. Both came out completely fine. I finish my period on Friday, had a shower, came to bed in my underwear, practically throwing my self at him, snuggling into him, and we were stroking each other's back's, he didn't know I was off my period, though, Mind you. But my body language completely said it. Anyway, absolutely nothing. I have gained weight, God knows how much, not that much, enough for me to worry this is the change. So, last night I stay at his... He has the cold and cant kiss for too long otherwise he finds it hard to breathe! So, we are back to the stroking back thing. Any time he starts to stop or not even move into anything more sexual, I just check my phone (That really pissed him off, maybe cause I wasn't giving him attention), So we had sex. I had hoped that was our 'problem' sorted. However, all day, I have been in my underwear, expecting for more. Absolutely nothing. What the hell is wrong? I don't know if I should confront him or not. he is 34 and I am 19, maybe his sex drive is dying down, I don't know, but I know I'm going mad about this!!
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Ok, hi 'luvhellokitty24', I'm Charlie, my boyfriend is called Derrick. We have been together everyday since the end of May. I did, however, meet him on a drunken night out and had a 'fumble' in the bushes. Ever since then we have been with each other each day ( apart from maybe 2 at the most). At first, we were having sex 2-3 times a day! We weren't even together, so far, we have 'officially' been together around 2 months. I do care for him a lot, maybe love. He says he loves me. We got a puppy together, who is very cute but I am beginning to get jealous of the amount of attention he gives the dog. Since we got him, the sex has completely died down. He is great in bed which pushes thoughts of me leaving him completely out. Of course, I would never leave over such silly things, there is obviously others which make me consider it. Last week I started my period, as usual, no sex for that week, as usual, but this time I was waiting for my period to end for me to begin taking the Pill, so we can have unprotected sex, carefree. Clinically checked, of course. Both came out completely fine. I finish my period on Friday, had a shower, came to bed in my underwear, practically throwing my self at him, snuggling into him, and we were stroking each other's back's, he didn't know I was off my period, though, Mind you. But my body language completely said it. Anyway, absolutely nothing. I have gained weight, God knows how much, not that much, enough for me to worry this is the change. So, last night I stay at his... He has the cold and cant kiss for too long otherwise he finds it hard to breathe! So, we are back to the stroking back thing. Any time he starts to stop or not even move into anything more sexual, I just check my phone (That really pissed him off, maybe cause I wasn't giving him attention), So we had sex. I had hoped that was our 'problem' sorted. However, all day, I have been in my underwear, expecting for more. Absolutely nothing. What the hell is wrong? I don't know if I should confront him or not. he is 34 and I am 19, maybe his sex drive is dying down, I don't know, but I know I'm going mad about this!!
October 3, 2010 - 2:34pmThis Comment
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