You know..so many women have complained about their husbands "jerking off" or masturbating or whatever you want to call it...and I am not sure why they take it personally?! I can see that you are upset because he is ALSO turning you down...that would hurt...but I'm not sure if you need to be so mad at the masturbation thing. I have talked about this issue so much with both men and women, and when you think about men masturbating when they could have sex with their wife (or partner), it really does make sense! Sometimes, for women too, there just needs to be a sexual release without all the other stuff. There is a lot of "other stuff" when it comes to sex, right?! Men need to figure out how to please the woman, and this changes frequently. It takes longer to please women, in general, and usually takes some emotional connecting first. Sex is hard work, honestly, and it can be nice, relaxing and relieving to just masturbate in less than 2 minutes and not have to communicate and relate to another person.
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You know..so many women have complained about their husbands "jerking off" or masturbating or whatever you want to call it...and I am not sure why they take it personally?! I can see that you are upset because he is ALSO turning you down...that would hurt...but I'm not sure if you need to be so mad at the masturbation thing. I have talked about this issue so much with both men and women, and when you think about men masturbating when they could have sex with their wife (or partner), it really does make sense! Sometimes, for women too, there just needs to be a sexual release without all the other stuff. There is a lot of "other stuff" when it comes to sex, right?! Men need to figure out how to please the woman, and this changes frequently. It takes longer to please women, in general, and usually takes some emotional connecting first. Sex is hard work, honestly, and it can be nice, relaxing and relieving to just masturbate in less than 2 minutes and not have to communicate and relate to another person.
That' s just my two cents on the topic!
September 30, 2010 - 2:36pmThis Comment
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