Sorry for the late reply, and i understand him jerking off, or masturbate. but im simple, i dont need anything and i dont need him to do anything extra, just our body to body is what i crave. and that as well is simple. and usually fast as well.. but i just dont understand how he makes it all about him and he simply doesnt even touch me or if we have sex maybe once a month or twice a month at the most. He knows im open to have sex anytime of the day or night... he knows im horny, but it just hurts when he turns me down, then i hear him in the bathroom, and he then denies it.... Actually, Hes lied from the start from the first time, Its really been hurting our relationship, and how he acts towards me and how i act towards him. And i personally cant stand it, every women is different. Im not gonna masturbate while my husband is home if he wants sex and then turn him down. i respect him. and i wont ever do it while hes home. that wouldnt be fare to him. just would be nice to get that same respect back. every women has there own opinion. alot say get a new man and alot say its natural. yeah i understand him doing it while im on my period. or while hes on a trip with work. but when he looks up into my eyes and tells me he is not, and tells me that i need to trust him, and he lies to my face, that really hurts. He finally told me he was, and it hurt so badly, not that he masturbated, but how he could so easliy lied into my eyes. maybe if he was more honest and open when i try and talk about the subject, then maybe it wouldnt be soo aggervating, hes very very stubborn, and he usually gets his way with anything.
but i told him after he finally fessed up that if he keeps lying about it, that i wouldnt be able to live with that, told him he needs to be honest with me when it comes to our entire relationship, cuz when hes not it tears us apart. I love him to death, and i told him he can do it, just dont do it more then actually wanting sex, and not make it look like he has to jerk off all the dang time. and he said he was done doing it entirely. i there fore said he could, and i didnt care just not to lie to my face about it. im still in ahh about the lies. but thats something ill have to get over. and alot of people are right, at least hes not cheating on with another women, if he was therefore hed be long gone!
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Sorry for the late reply, and i understand him jerking off, or masturbate. but im simple, i dont need anything and i dont need him to do anything extra, just our body to body is what i crave. and that as well is simple. and usually fast as well.. but i just dont understand how he makes it all about him and he simply doesnt even touch me or if we have sex maybe once a month or twice a month at the most. He knows im open to have sex anytime of the day or night... he knows im horny, but it just hurts when he turns me down, then i hear him in the bathroom, and he then denies it.... Actually, Hes lied from the start from the first time, Its really been hurting our relationship, and how he acts towards me and how i act towards him. And i personally cant stand it, every women is different. Im not gonna masturbate while my husband is home if he wants sex and then turn him down. i respect him. and i wont ever do it while hes home. that wouldnt be fare to him. just would be nice to get that same respect back. every women has there own opinion. alot say get a new man and alot say its natural. yeah i understand him doing it while im on my period. or while hes on a trip with work. but when he looks up into my eyes and tells me he is not, and tells me that i need to trust him, and he lies to my face, that really hurts. He finally told me he was, and it hurt so badly, not that he masturbated, but how he could so easliy lied into my eyes. maybe if he was more honest and open when i try and talk about the subject, then maybe it wouldnt be soo aggervating, hes very very stubborn, and he usually gets his way with anything.
October 6, 2010 - 7:40ambut i told him after he finally fessed up that if he keeps lying about it, that i wouldnt be able to live with that, told him he needs to be honest with me when it comes to our entire relationship, cuz when hes not it tears us apart. I love him to death, and i told him he can do it, just dont do it more then actually wanting sex, and not make it look like he has to jerk off all the dang time. and he said he was done doing it entirely. i there fore said he could, and i didnt care just not to lie to my face about it. im still in ahh about the lies. but thats something ill have to get over. and alot of people are right, at least hes not cheating on with another women, if he was therefore hed be long gone!
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