Hi,
I have to say...it is difficult "just" sticking to the facts with your question!
Here's the information:
1. If there was absolutely, positively no penetration with his penis inside your vagina, then the risk of pregnancy would be very, very slight.
2. You must know if he had an erection or not...it's not difficult to distinguish between an erect and flaccid penis..they are quite different! If he had an erection and DID NOT ejaculate on/near/beside/inside your vagina, your risk of pregnancy would be almost zero.
3. If he "pre-cummed", meaning ejaculated, there would be a risk of pregnancy if it was near your vagina. "Pre-cum" is actually NOT ejaculation. "Pre-cum" happens the moment a penis becomes erect, and "pre-ejaculatory fluid" comes up to the tip of the penis in a few drops. This "pre-cum" may/may not contain sperm. If a boy becomes excited and has an orgasm, this is called ejaculation. Ejaculation does contain sperm, and sperm can travel to your fallopian tubes through your vagina. You need to have sex for this to happen, or his penis needs to be on/near your vagina while ejaculating for a risk of pregnancy.
You have not started your period yet, but it could begin at any time. There is a chance of pregnancy (if you have sexual intercourse) if you ovulate, and then have a period two weeks later.
Can you tell us how old your step-brother is? I'm really concerned that he may be older, and your use of language ("sorda had sex") tells me that you are probably not emotionally ready to be experimenting this far physically. A step-brother is also a person whom you should not be experimenting with, as you are so afraid of a pregnancy without having sex, and already asking how to get rid of a fertilized egg?! Please have ANY BOY who has his penis beside your vagina WEAR A CONDOM if he is going to get close to your naked body! If you are choosing to do adult behaviors, you need to choose adult protection, too. Condoms are essential to prevent pregnancy.
If your parents can not know about your being physically intimate with your step-brother, please carefully think about this. It is fine to be curious about bodies, and fine to talk with him about stuff, but he could get into a lot of trouble (especially if he is over 18 years old), and I would want you to have a healthy relationship with a boy that you can be happy and excited to talk with your parents about. Being afraid of pregnancy already at 14 years of age, and not choosing to protect your body with a condom, can lead to a pregnancy at an early age. If this is absolutely not possible for you to be pregnant (I hope it's not), you will need to change your choices. Your choices now can lead to a pregnancy, and it happens to so many girls, unfortunately. You have the power to choose to use a condom, choose the right boy, and choose other means to express yourself without creating so much stress and worry! :)
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Hi,
I have to say...it is difficult "just" sticking to the facts with your question!
Here's the information:
1. If there was absolutely, positively no penetration with his penis inside your vagina, then the risk of pregnancy would be very, very slight.
2. You must know if he had an erection or not...it's not difficult to distinguish between an erect and flaccid penis..they are quite different! If he had an erection and DID NOT ejaculate on/near/beside/inside your vagina, your risk of pregnancy would be almost zero.
3. If he "pre-cummed", meaning ejaculated, there would be a risk of pregnancy if it was near your vagina. "Pre-cum" is actually NOT ejaculation. "Pre-cum" happens the moment a penis becomes erect, and "pre-ejaculatory fluid" comes up to the tip of the penis in a few drops. This "pre-cum" may/may not contain sperm. If a boy becomes excited and has an orgasm, this is called ejaculation. Ejaculation does contain sperm, and sperm can travel to your fallopian tubes through your vagina. You need to have sex for this to happen, or his penis needs to be on/near your vagina while ejaculating for a risk of pregnancy.
You have not started your period yet, but it could begin at any time. There is a chance of pregnancy (if you have sexual intercourse) if you ovulate, and then have a period two weeks later.
Can you tell us how old your step-brother is? I'm really concerned that he may be older, and your use of language ("sorda had sex") tells me that you are probably not emotionally ready to be experimenting this far physically. A step-brother is also a person whom you should not be experimenting with, as you are so afraid of a pregnancy without having sex, and already asking how to get rid of a fertilized egg?! Please have ANY BOY who has his penis beside your vagina WEAR A CONDOM if he is going to get close to your naked body! If you are choosing to do adult behaviors, you need to choose adult protection, too. Condoms are essential to prevent pregnancy.
If your parents can not know about your being physically intimate with your step-brother, please carefully think about this. It is fine to be curious about bodies, and fine to talk with him about stuff, but he could get into a lot of trouble (especially if he is over 18 years old), and I would want you to have a healthy relationship with a boy that you can be happy and excited to talk with your parents about. Being afraid of pregnancy already at 14 years of age, and not choosing to protect your body with a condom, can lead to a pregnancy at an early age. If this is absolutely not possible for you to be pregnant (I hope it's not), you will need to change your choices. Your choices now can lead to a pregnancy, and it happens to so many girls, unfortunately. You have the power to choose to use a condom, choose the right boy, and choose other means to express yourself without creating so much stress and worry! :)
October 12, 2010 - 8:29pmThis Comment
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