I think we're doing okay :) we had an honest conversation about what the problem was. He admitted that since it had happened once for unknown reasons he started worrying about it every time - which only made things more difficult for him. I ended up giving him a sexy massage and taking control of the situation until he felt comfortable enough to take charge himself, which he did admirably! I think we're both relaxing into a comfortable, more mature state where we still love sex with each other but don't need to prove it to ourselves by doing it every night we spend together.
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I think we're doing okay :) we had an honest conversation about what the problem was. He admitted that since it had happened once for unknown reasons he started worrying about it every time - which only made things more difficult for him. I ended up giving him a sexy massage and taking control of the situation until he felt comfortable enough to take charge himself, which he did admirably! I think we're both relaxing into a comfortable, more mature state where we still love sex with each other but don't need to prove it to ourselves by doing it every night we spend together.
November 28, 2010 - 7:36pmThis Comment
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