Hey ladies, I haven't been on here in a while but I just wanted to give you another update.
My boyfriend and I took some time apart and worked on ourselves. I'm back in school now and learnt to do things that I enjoy. And he got a "grown up" job and is on a steady path.
We are back together officially now after months of secretly dating. It was almost exciting keeping it away from our friends, I think that brought back a bit of the spark.
During our break I really learnt to be more independent and forced myself to do things for myself. When we started talking again it was as if I was a whole new person!
We are so happy together now and he is now the one that brings up our future together cause he feels that he can provide for us. It's like his confidence in himself has inspired him to be a better boyfriend and allows him to "want" to focus on us. In turn that makes me want to have my own life because I no longer think he's going to leave everytime I go out. My new found security makes him happy cause he has time to miss me. It's all an endless cycle!!! Only difference is that this time it is a good one.
It is great that it worked out for me and him. But I do want to take the the time to say that if we hadnt got back together, it would have all worked out in the end. Sure, it is still going to be hurtful and I cried everyday for months, but that didnt mean that I was going to do that forever. It would have gradually stopped and I would be able to live again, even though it still hurts. What I'm trying to say is, for all the ladies that are going through what I went though, if he doesn't come back, it's not the end of the world. Doing things you enjoy really does make you happy. Being independent is what brought him back, but if it didn't it would have been his loss!!
I love myself now, and that makes my boyfriend love me more.
Thank you ladies for all your support!!
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Hey ladies, I haven't been on here in a while but I just wanted to give you another update.
My boyfriend and I took some time apart and worked on ourselves. I'm back in school now and learnt to do things that I enjoy. And he got a "grown up" job and is on a steady path.
We are back together officially now after months of secretly dating. It was almost exciting keeping it away from our friends, I think that brought back a bit of the spark.
During our break I really learnt to be more independent and forced myself to do things for myself. When we started talking again it was as if I was a whole new person!
We are so happy together now and he is now the one that brings up our future together cause he feels that he can provide for us. It's like his confidence in himself has inspired him to be a better boyfriend and allows him to "want" to focus on us. In turn that makes me want to have my own life because I no longer think he's going to leave everytime I go out. My new found security makes him happy cause he has time to miss me. It's all an endless cycle!!! Only difference is that this time it is a good one.
It is great that it worked out for me and him. But I do want to take the the time to say that if we hadnt got back together, it would have all worked out in the end. Sure, it is still going to be hurtful and I cried everyday for months, but that didnt mean that I was going to do that forever. It would have gradually stopped and I would be able to live again, even though it still hurts. What I'm trying to say is, for all the ladies that are going through what I went though, if he doesn't come back, it's not the end of the world. Doing things you enjoy really does make you happy. Being independent is what brought him back, but if it didn't it would have been his loss!!
I love myself now, and that makes my boyfriend love me more.
October 18, 2011 - 1:43amThank you ladies for all your support!!
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