Oh my god, anonymous, your comments could be from me! There are age factors that differ however. My husband is 71 and I am in my late 60's, married 38 years and he still wants sex several times a week. That is where the differences end.
Same as your husband, mine has hidden it then sworn he thought he destroyed it all. He has put it in different folders and swore he forgot they were there. He has had them in his email, opened, and swore he didn't open them yet he is the only one who has access to his computer.
And you mentioned rage, oh yes, there have been times he has gone completely off the deep end when I have found his ladies, and I use the term ladies vvery lightly.
These men apparently are not smart enough to know if they were innocent or if they understood how much they have hurt us and really want us to believe them, they would instead comfort us and reassure us that it really is not something they knew about, but the rage is a very good indication they have been caught again and they are about to lose even more of our trust.
I have already files for divorce because I cannot live with not knowing if every time he touches me, it is with visions of these women in his mind. It has nearly destroyed me, my self confidence, my mind. I had to get out.
I'm so sorry for what you are going through. If like me, you have wanted very deeply to believe his lies. I've turned myself inside out trying to believe that all of these were no more than coincidences that he was not responsible for, but after so many times, you just know. I mean, how many times have you turned your computer on and found such crap? None right? Because you didn't put it there. And then there is the sex, he prefered sex over lovemaking too and yes, the porn talk, he used to use it too and it literally made me want to jump out of bed and puke. Towards the end, I got to the point of tensing up when he even came near me. It was not fair to him so I needed to let him go. There are women out there, whores, who would love to join in the fun and games with him and I do sincerely hope he finds one, but it is not going to be me.
I put up with this all of these years because I believed he would eventually get old enough that he wouldn't be interested in sex, but at 71 and still viewing and wanting sex several times a week? No, he is sick and I just cannot go on any longer. I hurt for him, but not enough that I could have stayed one day longer.
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Oh my god, anonymous, your comments could be from me! There are age factors that differ however. My husband is 71 and I am in my late 60's, married 38 years and he still wants sex several times a week. That is where the differences end.
Same as your husband, mine has hidden it then sworn he thought he destroyed it all. He has put it in different folders and swore he forgot they were there. He has had them in his email, opened, and swore he didn't open them yet he is the only one who has access to his computer.
And you mentioned rage, oh yes, there have been times he has gone completely off the deep end when I have found his ladies, and I use the term ladies vvery lightly.
These men apparently are not smart enough to know if they were innocent or if they understood how much they have hurt us and really want us to believe them, they would instead comfort us and reassure us that it really is not something they knew about, but the rage is a very good indication they have been caught again and they are about to lose even more of our trust.
I have already files for divorce because I cannot live with not knowing if every time he touches me, it is with visions of these women in his mind. It has nearly destroyed me, my self confidence, my mind. I had to get out.
I'm so sorry for what you are going through. If like me, you have wanted very deeply to believe his lies. I've turned myself inside out trying to believe that all of these were no more than coincidences that he was not responsible for, but after so many times, you just know. I mean, how many times have you turned your computer on and found such crap? None right? Because you didn't put it there. And then there is the sex, he prefered sex over lovemaking too and yes, the porn talk, he used to use it too and it literally made me want to jump out of bed and puke. Towards the end, I got to the point of tensing up when he even came near me. It was not fair to him so I needed to let him go. There are women out there, whores, who would love to join in the fun and games with him and I do sincerely hope he finds one, but it is not going to be me.
I put up with this all of these years because I believed he would eventually get old enough that he wouldn't be interested in sex, but at 71 and still viewing and wanting sex several times a week? No, he is sick and I just cannot go on any longer. I hurt for him, but not enough that I could have stayed one day longer.
December 10, 2010 - 12:35pmThis Comment
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