The other poster said "he is trying to change me and he says I am trying to change him." The truth is dear, you cannot change anyone but yourself and neither can he.
YOU have to decided what you can and cannot live with and accept. You cannot make him give up the pics but you can decided to let him have them and move on or you can say it isn't going to be a happy relationship with him doing this, and leave. He is not going to stop and the sooner you realize this, the better off you will be.
Can you be happy in a relationship where you always feel hurt, sad, and mad because you know he is looking at other womens naked breast? If you can stop your emotions and be happy, go for it. But, if you feel like it will always hurt and anger you, then there is going to be constant strife between the two of you. Is that love or happiness?
You are not too old to find happiness with a man that can love YOU and not a bunch of images found in a magazine or in a puter. These men are sick. they may seem perfectly wonderful in every other way but if they cannot stop looking at other womens breasts, something is wrong. ALL men DO NOT do this, regardless of what some say. Some men loves their partner and would honor any request that is reasonable, and yours certainly is, to make their woman happy and to live in peace and have a strong and healthy relationship in every way, including sex.
It is difficult I realize but only you can decide what you will put up with. Women out here are leaving these relationships because of this every day. No, it isn't easy and it hurts like hell to walk away from the man you love, but time will heal that also, and one day, when you find that man who will love and desire YOU, you will bo so glad you moved on. Please don't wait as many years as I did. I spent too many years being yelled at each time and ordered to stop crying because I was only doing it to myself by snooping.
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The other poster said "he is trying to change me and he says I am trying to change him." The truth is dear, you cannot change anyone but yourself and neither can he.
YOU have to decided what you can and cannot live with and accept. You cannot make him give up the pics but you can decided to let him have them and move on or you can say it isn't going to be a happy relationship with him doing this, and leave. He is not going to stop and the sooner you realize this, the better off you will be.
Can you be happy in a relationship where you always feel hurt, sad, and mad because you know he is looking at other womens naked breast? If you can stop your emotions and be happy, go for it. But, if you feel like it will always hurt and anger you, then there is going to be constant strife between the two of you. Is that love or happiness?
You are not too old to find happiness with a man that can love YOU and not a bunch of images found in a magazine or in a puter. These men are sick. they may seem perfectly wonderful in every other way but if they cannot stop looking at other womens breasts, something is wrong. ALL men DO NOT do this, regardless of what some say. Some men loves their partner and would honor any request that is reasonable, and yours certainly is, to make their woman happy and to live in peace and have a strong and healthy relationship in every way, including sex.
It is difficult I realize but only you can decide what you will put up with. Women out here are leaving these relationships because of this every day. No, it isn't easy and it hurts like hell to walk away from the man you love, but time will heal that also, and one day, when you find that man who will love and desire YOU, you will bo so glad you moved on. Please don't wait as many years as I did. I spent too many years being yelled at each time and ordered to stop crying because I was only doing it to myself by snooping.
December 10, 2010 - 2:10pmThis Comment
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