Sex may be uncomfortable if she has not had intercourse for over 3 years. A few tips:
- Start slow, engage in a lot of foreplay
- Be sure she is properly lubricated before inserting a penis or finger into her vagina. You may want to purchase some lubrication for this purpose, too (can be found anywhere condoms are sold).
- Communicate! The more you two talk about the possibility of sex being uncomfortable, the more relaxed and confident she will be that you will go slow, stop when she needs you to, and know that you will not be disappointed if you both need to try again at a later time.
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Sex may be uncomfortable if she has not had intercourse for over 3 years. A few tips:
- Start slow, engage in a lot of foreplay
- Be sure she is properly lubricated before inserting a penis or finger into her vagina. You may want to purchase some lubrication for this purpose, too (can be found anywhere condoms are sold).
- Communicate! The more you two talk about the possibility of sex being uncomfortable, the more relaxed and confident she will be that you will go slow, stop when she needs you to, and know that you will not be disappointed if you both need to try again at a later time.
good luck!
November 30, 2010 - 12:20pmThis Comment
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