As much as I hate to sound like "one of those guys" I really would like to point out that if the genders were reversed in this situation, a lot of the sense of entitlement to somebody else's body and aadvice given would be considered offensive and oppressive.
Seriously; go back and read the article again, imagining the genders were reversed. Also, how quickly it suggests that when a man does not desire sex with his SO for any period of time, that something is physically, mentally or emotionally wrong with him is something I really don't think would be considered an acceptable POV in a situation where it was the woman withholding sex from the man in the relationship. How would the owners of this website react to an article suggesting men corner women with questions that demand direct answers and threaten to end a realtionship if the woman does not have sexual relations with them?
I support equality as much as the next man, but this article does not come from a position of equality but rather one of counterdominance. That does not make for a healthy relationship.
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As much as I hate to sound like "one of those guys" I really would like to point out that if the genders were reversed in this situation, a lot of the sense of entitlement to somebody else's body and aadvice given would be considered offensive and oppressive.
Seriously; go back and read the article again, imagining the genders were reversed. Also, how quickly it suggests that when a man does not desire sex with his SO for any period of time, that something is physically, mentally or emotionally wrong with him is something I really don't think would be considered an acceptable POV in a situation where it was the woman withholding sex from the man in the relationship. How would the owners of this website react to an article suggesting men corner women with questions that demand direct answers and threaten to end a realtionship if the woman does not have sexual relations with them?
I support equality as much as the next man, but this article does not come from a position of equality but rather one of counterdominance. That does not make for a healthy relationship.
January 1, 2016 - 10:56pmThis Comment
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