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I am curious about how you are doing, and also wondering why you are staying with someone who has been very honest with you, saying, "he wasn't interested in me.". He has told you what you needed to hear, yet you sound like you are still hoping for something that is no longer there.

It does hurt when someone is no longer interested in us, but then we need to move on. He wants to be your friend, he is no longer sexually interested in you, he is no longer interested in a relationship with you-- he did a good job in saying all of this. I am not sure why you would want him to go to counseling, as counseling can not lead to a change of heart. You are in a relationship with someone whom only wants to be your friend, and you want a romantic relationship. It sounds like he will not make the final move to officially end it...and it is sad, because he has told you everything openly and honestly. You probably will need to make the last and final move to let him know you can officially move on and let him go.

You sound like you have some wonderful friends, and I would love to hear what you enjoy doing for yourself. What activities or interests do you have, that bring you joy?