Hi Anonymous,
Thanks for your question and for finding EmpowHER. Have you (gently and in a non-threatening way) asked your girlfriend why she doesn't want to have sex? Communication is key in relationships. Her reason could be religious, based on fear, not wanting a serious relationship, avoiding STD/STIs, or waiting until marriage, among a whole host of possible reasons. She should be your best source for getting to the bottom of it, and making sure you are both of similar mind when it comes to sexual activity.
What do you think? Good luck, and let us know if you have more questions.
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Hi Anonymous,
February 1, 2011 - 8:53amThanks for your question and for finding EmpowHER. Have you (gently and in a non-threatening way) asked your girlfriend why she doesn't want to have sex? Communication is key in relationships. Her reason could be religious, based on fear, not wanting a serious relationship, avoiding STD/STIs, or waiting until marriage, among a whole host of possible reasons. She should be your best source for getting to the bottom of it, and making sure you are both of similar mind when it comes to sexual activity.
What do you think? Good luck, and let us know if you have more questions.
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