I am very sorry you have to go through this. first off Congrats on loosing the weight AND keeping it off. You should be proud! I have only lost 20lbs on my path too feel beautiful, but on the way I found my self confidence. It sounds like you did too. Unfortunatly not everyone will think the same way. I was in a relationship like that before. He is a great guy, but he has so much growing up to do. Because I was confident, he wanted to bring me down to his level of insecurity. It worked. I changed who I was, I spent so much money trying to be someone I wasnt, from the color and length of my hair, to my weight, clothes, and friends. I became depressed, what was even worse. Because he wasnt changing who he was and what made him unhappy, all my changes werent engough for him. Later after I picked up the peices and did what I had to, to become happy with me, I found the man of my dreams. I have been happily married for 2 1/5 years now. Not once had he tired to change me. You deserve to be treated like a queen.
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I am very sorry you have to go through this. first off Congrats on loosing the weight AND keeping it off. You should be proud! I have only lost 20lbs on my path too feel beautiful, but on the way I found my self confidence. It sounds like you did too. Unfortunatly not everyone will think the same way. I was in a relationship like that before. He is a great guy, but he has so much growing up to do. Because I was confident, he wanted to bring me down to his level of insecurity. It worked. I changed who I was, I spent so much money trying to be someone I wasnt, from the color and length of my hair, to my weight, clothes, and friends. I became depressed, what was even worse. Because he wasnt changing who he was and what made him unhappy, all my changes werent engough for him. Later after I picked up the peices and did what I had to, to become happy with me, I found the man of my dreams. I have been happily married for 2 1/5 years now. Not once had he tired to change me. You deserve to be treated like a queen.
February 9, 2011 - 10:34amThis Comment
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