Thank you for sharing your story. Yes, this too is a part of the grieving process - the loss of the dreams. It's not only the feelings of betrayal and disappointment.
I do believe that lasting marriages are possible, I just think that many have unrealistic expectations of how that's going to happen. People don't always want to give up or change or learn about their partner and work at being marriage. I think some just expect it to be easy and it isn't.
I'm also one of those who knows I belong with someone...not sure that's as a wife though (will talk about that aspect in another article I think).
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Thank you for sharing your story. Yes, this too is a part of the grieving process - the loss of the dreams. It's not only the feelings of betrayal and disappointment.
I do believe that lasting marriages are possible, I just think that many have unrealistic expectations of how that's going to happen. People don't always want to give up or change or learn about their partner and work at being marriage. I think some just expect it to be easy and it isn't.
I'm also one of those who knows I belong with someone...not sure that's as a wife though (will talk about that aspect in another article I think).
Thank you again for sharing your story.
February 14, 2011 - 12:50pmThis Comment
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