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Hi babibubbles,
Thanks for your comment. It's good to see someone on the site providing a positive and productive solution. I hope your own situation is resolved soon. It also is good to note that regardless of what is going on with your boyfriend, you can choose to instead of being concerned with his sex drive, you may want to focus on yourself. Focus on making yourself happy while he figures out his own thing. You are not responsible for him, and can't change him--that is an adult relationship. It's good that you advocate for your relationship, but don't forget to focus on you also. I'm not a doctor, or therapist, so take it with a grain of salt--don't listen to me if you think it's hogwash. But I also have found from my own experience, that if you're too clingy, and too concerned with "fixing" the relationship, it can also be a turn-off for a guy. True, relationships can be work to keep the fire going, but it also shouldn't be so hard. Guys like confident, independent women who take care of themselves.
Good luck and let us know how you're doing.